Thursday, February 21, 2008

Friday Reflection : Key of Happiness is to Let it Go

We all ever have bad days. Times when we lose our temper, our stress levels rise and we lose our perspective and happy smile. Why I get upset and hurt easily?? Is it because my past?? Ya..yaa... I ever had a toxic relationship that needs to be addressed or severed. And It's leave me with serious regrets, althought I didn't do anything wrong but still those unpleasant feeling comes over.

I know that there is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However, regrets can become either burdens that interfere with my present happiness and restrict d'future, or motivation to move forward. I need to step back from the feelings of regret and identify exactly what the regret is. But I never did, I feel that I couldn't and I don't know what it is??

Maybe I have to forgive and forget. Just let it go as always people do. Hmmff... easy to say, hard to do. I have Love-Hate feelings towards it. One moment I miss it, the next time I wish I never feel it. And there are even times I get that all at once!!! I Guess the best way I can explain it is... I hate it for all the negative things they did to me, but love it for all the positive things that ever happen to me. Now, I have a happy perfect life. So, what?! Be thankful for that.

It’s common to have some regrets; after all, life isn’t a rehearsal; this is it - this is your life. But you don’t have to live in the past ... (Alicia Socorro)

Inspired by this.

14 comments:

  1. Waaa.. ini mah lagu AKU bangetttt. Thanks ndre :)))).

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  2. Sama- sama... itu juga lagu aku... tapi waktu masih ada pacar :-p

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  3. iye bener.... lagi ini dikasih pacar eh mantan pas lagi brantem dulu... hehehe

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  4. Biasalah cewe, biar cowonya inget. Sekalian ngajarin kalo cewe pengen dikasih hal2 yang romantis juga hehehe :D.

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  5. wah kalo aku mah boleh dibilang cukup romantis lah mbak... hehe... *ajaran kis fm :-))*... tapi yah gitu deh... emang ga jodoh hehehe

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  6. Tenanggg... Belum yang terbaik. *sok dah pengalaman* :p.

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  7. Kalo aku: just blame it on the hormones :D yakin gak lg PMS, De?

    to Mas Andre: duh cute banget videonya, nambah 'rasa' ke lagunya :D TFS

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  8. Hahaha... ;D. Kasian banget si hormon, disalain mulu :p.
    Tapi emang gitu yaa?!

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  9. we remembers our past to learn from it, to make our current life better. mistakes made, that often mark our memory forever with pain. but for good and bad, that's what happened, that's what shapes our present. make amends if you have to. learn from it, then leave it where it belongs to; in the past.

    no matter how hard we tries, we can never change our past... our responsibility is to shape our future, and our past experiences is a good place to start.

    good luck dear

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  10. Thanks Hun :x.

    Memang lebih baik ikhlasin aja hal2 yang ga enak yang pernah terjadi. Banyak hikmah dibalik itu. Kita bisa belajar lebih baik lagi. Love u :).

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  11. Ngaku deh, kadang suka gitu juga kok ;D.

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